Friendship means to be in mutual agreement with someone. Friendship is a choice that can either make you or mar you.
An adage says ''show me your friend and I will show you who you are''
There are friends and there are friends. Friends come in variety, those who will be there for you, those who want you for what you have.e.t.c.
This story below is a good example of a true friend.
A voyaging ship was wrecked during a storm at sea and only two of the men on it were able to swim to a small, desert like island.
The two survivors who have been good friends, not knowing what else to do, agreed that they had no other recourse but to pray to God.
This story below is a good example of a true friend.
A voyaging ship was wrecked during a storm at sea and only two of the men on it were able to swim to a small, desert like island.
The two survivors who have been good friends, not knowing what else to do, agreed that they had no other recourse but to pray to God.
However, to find out whose prayer was more powerful, they agreed to divide the territory between them and stay on opposite sides of the island.The first thing they prayed for was food. The next morning, the first man saw a fruit-bearing tree on his side of the land, and he was able to eat its fruit. The other man’s parcel of land remained barren.After a week, the first man was lonely and he decided to pray for a wife.
The next day, another ship was wrecked, and the only survivor was a woman who swam to his side of the land. On the other side of the island, there was nothing.Soon the first man prayed for a house, clothes, more food. The next day, like magic, all of these were given to him. However, the second man still had nothing.Finally, the first man prayed for a ship, so that he and his wife could leave the island. In the morning, he found a ship docked at his side of the island.
The first man boarded the ship with his wife and decided to leave the second man on the island.He considered the other man unworthy to receive God’s blessings, since none of his prayers had been answered.As the ship was about to leave, the first man heard a voice from heaven booming, “Why are you leaving your companion on the island?”
“My blessings are mine alone, since I was the one who prayed for them,” the first man answered. “His prayers were all unanswered and so he does not deserve anything.”“You are mistaken!” the voice rebuked him. “He had only one prayer, which I answered. If not for that, you would not have received any of my blessings.”“Tell me,” the first man asked the voice, “What did he pray for that I should owe him anything?”“He prayed that all your prayers be answered “So I ask these questions;What kind of friend are you portraying
Are you a true and loyal friend
Or are you a friend who always criticise or downgrade
These are some points on how to build friendship:
- Strive not to find the right person, be the right person yourself then people will earn your trust and respect
- Dont wait for people to be friendly show them how
- Be a source of impact to their lives
- Be there in time of need
- Always be open and truthful to each other
- Love them inspite of their imperfections,no one is perfect
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