Sunday, 22 June 2014

What are the qualities of a good marriage

Recently, I went for a wedding and the minister cited some qualities of a good marriage, he said beauty, money is needed for a good marriage but in all these if ''LOVE'' is absent then the marriage will fall apart like a pack of cards.

He further said beauty will fade, money might not be there all the time because challenges may come up but ''LOVE'' will stand the test of time.

Why did I capitalise the word ''LOVE'', this word has become very common  among people who are in a relationship or even married, they tend to disabuse the word.
If you truly love someone, it will come from your heart coupled with actions that will make the person value you.

My own opinion of LOVE is understanding, sacrifice, sincerity, tolerance, caring, humility and so on.
If the foundation of your relationship is not based on ''LOVE' then am sorry, when situations of life come up, it will be very difficult to weather the storms.

To me, LOVE has become so complicated that I find it very hard to grasp maybe because of you are not sure if the person truly means it from his or her heart, or the person just wants to use you to get something in return.

If you don't love yourself you can never love anyone that is the first step in building a lasting relationship that will culminate into a wonderful marriage.

I will say LOVE is the ingredient that makes marriage sweet and refreshing.
Just remember I love you all and I await your comments.

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